What Is The True Measure Of A Man?

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It is not possible to tell the true character of a man you may argue. Well, whereas, I agree with you in this, we can as well differ in so many other aspects. Boys will always be boys. This is a common saying that is usually uttered by ladies. Whatever they mean is none of my business. I say this because the world has produced many types of characters some of which astonish, amaze, and others amuse. However, the true measure of a man depends neither on the aforementioned nor on a few things that you may be thinking of.

Do not worry why I call them a few. Of course, they are not many. Are they? Some people believe that since mathematicians follow a set of formulae to arrive at a mathematical solution, we should do the same in ascertaining the true value of a man. Granted, there are things that men do that boys don’t and vice versa. Whatever the case, a true man will always gain the confidence of the beholder. In this case, I am talking about any person who could be interested with good qualities and values.

We have seen a lot in the society that surrounds us no matter how small it may be. Whether from such or not, you too have witnessed the trend that must have started when Nelson Mandela left prison after serving a jail term of 28 years.The behavior is seemingly not ending anytime soon. What will be done to this ‘digital generation’ of men is way past our ability. Maybe we pray that it will end soon before the Nazarene descends. But prior to that, we need to understand what is used to measure a true man thus separating him from the boys.

“A man is measured by his

deeds not misdeeds of fame.”

In yester years, it was evident that a man behaved one. Today, while they are supposed to emulate, they mutate. What will help our men? To answer that question, one has to call a public baraza in every County every Sunday afternoon for a decade. If you think this is a haphazard calculation, look at it this way: why is it that when something is wrong in any community, for instance a row between a husband and his wife, is taken before a council of elders for arbitration? Is it not believed that they have wisdom? If I can believe my little mind, that is the reason. If then that is so, think of how far we are as a country to produce real people-men of substance.

Many people, however have their say on what they believe a true man should be like. I have no offense with you because you are entitled to your own opinion. While talking about how to solve relationship issues among women, Steve Harvey a renowned American TV comedian and author, told his audience who comprised women that they should think like women but act like a man. Are you seeing any similarity in this, for a lady to be fully acting as a woman, she has to think of who she is, but act indifferently. That will also apply to men. A true man should think like a man but act as a lady. Don’t be too fast to brush off this idea. Women are known all over to be compassionate, loving to their families and children treating them with much tenderness. What if all men acted the same way? How I wish I had the ability to. But I am putting on the efforts and I assure you that I will not relent until I reach the Promised Land. If you think this is not reasonable, be honest with me and tell me if you like what you see our men doing as we hear from the media. It hurts to see those entrusted with responsibilities turn to their flock as if there was a drought  more than what the Prophet Elijah witnessed in Sarephat.

I mean what happened? When people are under the influence of drugs they are doomed to act crazy you would say. One may ask what of when they are sane and sound in mind without any history of cerebral dysfunction? Sanity and maturity is expected.The truth is that a man will never be measured by what he has, if it were so, we would be having a different subject to discuss about. Starting with the richest man Solomon down to our business moguls, we would be having real men. Surprisingly, they too need to learn from this. A true man should be looked at from a different angle not what we see in soaps, reality shows, and in the wider streets of major cities in the world.

A man is measured by what he does to others in every step of his life. I don’t mean that they need to dish out money because many of whom I call men earn a pittance. Yes, they need to exhibit soundness of mind in whatever they do whether in the office, at home, with colleagues watching EPL and in a matatu. Does it matter what a man puts on? Well, the answer depends on your view towards the stripping of ladies that has marred most parts of the country recently. Our men wear like they want as if they own the whole world. Besides, they believe so much in their ego to the extent of forgetting that behind every man there should be a strong and capable woman who most men don’t consult. They make important decisions without involving their mates even on things that affect them directly. What a folly!

Who said that a man will absolutely die if he said sorry to his fellow even to a lady? Don’t you think that if they deserve to be pardoned by others, they should also be in the forefront to apologize whenever they wrong somebody? A man is never superior to a woman. Granted, they have been given the mandate to take the lead in almost every forum. But when you witness our men of fame battle it out in the loftiest house on the land then you will realize that there is a problem somewhere. Who will tell them in my behalf? A man is measured by his deeds not misdeeds of fame.

“A true man should think

like a man but act as a lady.”

We respect our veterans some of whom have not received a decent burial for over a decade following their unselfish efforts to see that our country gains ‘independence’ that never was. While that is true, for those heroes, others are amassing themselves with titles such as ‘the most wanted pedophile.’ Surely, where will we drive our country to if not into a deep ditch? While you are contemplating that question, allow me introduce to you another angle, do you know of a man who fathered a child and now he stays with a different family because the then wife was not able to give him a baby son? Suppose three or so women never did the same in a row, how many children could this man be entitled to as a father when the end of times comes? You should style up brother. Hardly do you know that you are the problem. You are the one to be held accountable for gender, balancing, not your wives.

You could be having the money and power but the way you use them depicts how you are. As mentioned earlier, a man who shows off himself in a public transport vehicle should always beware that if indeed he were what he purports to be, he wouldn’t be in a cue in the first place. Affluent men leave the office at 4 o ‘clock accompanied by their drivers and security guards. So stop what you think you are doing. There will come a time you will be required to showcase your energy, but I am surprised that you might not by then. So if my version of whom a man is wrong to this end, then you might not agree with me in a few lines to come. But if there has been much sense, you are definitely yearning to see what ensues.

What you will do

Do not struggle if you are not able to say sorry but kindly avoid embarrassing others because you will be forced to say those words in a hard way. All humans are equal. Since that is a conventional truth, wherever you are, know that everyone has a right to decide what they do whenever they want to do it provided they are not your children.Consult with your wife, listen to her as she makes her humble suggestions and guide her in making right decisions. We are all entitled to our taste and preference. To that end, let them wear the way that pleases them as long as they do not infringe my mind and heart. You too should learn not to show me your boxers. I have mine.

Your checklist:

How do you treat your wife?

How often do you apologize if any?

What is your mode of dress?

How do you feel when others dress indecently?

Do you consult your mate?

Do you get offended when admonished? Why?

How have your views changed after reading this article?

Why People Think About Sex During The Day

Is this not an interesting scenario? Indeed it is. The fact is that many people think about sex than they thought they could. Sex, day dream about it and mere fantasy, comes almost all the time including the worst expected moments: handling files in the office or while serving clients. Well, do women really think about sex during the day? If they do, how often do they do so? Can we compare them with their male counterparts? These are important questions worthy relevant answers.

Do Women Think About Sex During The Day?

Absolutely yes! Women like men, think about sex many times during the day. According to a recent study, women think about sex approximately 10 times in a day. There are claims that they indeed do so 34 times. If we can trust such results, we can translate it this way: almost every hour, thoughts about sex engulf women daily while at work. The number is likely to rise when at home or with female friends, the study shows.

There is a big discrepancy though between the number of times men think of sex during the day and that of women. It has been widely observed that men think about sex, day dream and fantasize about sex nearly twice that number. It is said that men do this almost 19 times a day. This ends that 'ancient' belief that they do so every 7 seconds. This was a world guess that emanated with Alfred Kinsey back in 1948.

The compiled study that suggested that women can actually think about sex nearly 34 times a day, means that they day dream about sex every after 14 minutes. While this can be true, all the women interviewed revealed some facts behind their day dream fascinations about sex. Although, we are not overly surprised by the number of times women think about sex during the day. When asked why they spent such much time fantasizing about sex d

Many people think about sex all day long.

uring the day, they had a lot to relate.

Why Do Women Think About Sex, Day Dream And Talk About Sex?

All accusations were directed to their men! Women claim that they do not receive sufficient action in bed. This is reasonable. Isn’t it? "The level of sexual dissatisfaction is high", they claimed. When women don’t receive the required sexual satisfaction from their men during the night, this is left to perplex them the whole day the following morning. What a shocking revelation!

The study continues to show that, fantasy is another thing. Women want to have sex with celebrities, even bear them children or name children after them. Indeed these things can lead to thinking about sex the whole day whether at work or in the house. Because of the reason stated in the preceding paragraph, it has been said that some women even think of wild things when in a sexual activity. Because of the dissatisfaction, she would be thinking about a different man may be her ex-boyfriend while she is with her current man in bed. “We are compelled to think about them,” most of the women said. Interestingly, 7% of the women interviewed agreed that they even shouted someone else’s name during such a moment of throes of passion.

Then What?

Whatever reasons women are going to come up with to justify their deeds, they think about sex, day dream about it and fantasize about someone else nearly 10 times a day including the sweetest times with the current man.

Truth About Female Viagra

Are you the kind of lady, who goes to bed with your loved one and upon stepping out of the bed, you feel like there is nothing you have been doing? Are you? Sorry for that. This is not the end of your dissatisfaction. While this is not common for women as it is for men, there lies a problem and a remedy at the same time.

Women who suffer from sexual dissatisfaction are not whores or harlots. It is their right that once they are under the sheets, they get proper treatment, yes, sufficient sexual activity that leads to satisfaction. To help them achieve this, female Viagra has been manufactured. What is it? How does it work? What is the price? What is the dosage? Are there side effects? Let us look at these and many other noble concerns.

What Is Female Viagra?

Just like there is Viagra for men, there is Lovegra for women. This is the opposite of the male Viagra. The daily drug supplement has been designed to enhance sexual satisfaction in women. Wondering how it does this? Worry not. Sildenafil, the ingredient in a female Viagra pill, increases blood flow to the female genitalia during sex. When at the climax, because of one reason or another, some women don’t attain the intended sexual pleasure. To help them feel it, female Viagra, catalyses blood flow during sex thus the woman feels the required sensations during the act, prompting multiple orgasms. It also treats frigidity.

How To Use It

As already stated, the reason for using female Viagra is to enhance sexual satisfaction. So it is absolutely unreasonable if you will take it when indeed you enjoy and reach sexual satisfaction without them. The point is: don’t take it if you don’t need it. To that effect, it should only be taken when ready for sexual activity precisely a few minutes to the actual love play.

Dosage

The dosage of female Viagra should not exceed a pill a day.

Unlike its male counterpart, female Viagra is usually in a pack of 100 mg. The quantity of pills in one bottle is also different. There are 30, 60 and 90 pills in one bottle. The female Viagra should never exceed 1 pill per day lest there will be side effects.

How To Buy It

You can buy this drug over the counter. Additionally, there are thousands of online drug stores you buy from provided you take the drug as prescribed.

Are There Generic Female Viagra?

Yes! But they act just the same way as branded original female Viagra. You are likely to get affordable price quotes as $112.44 for 90 pills, $94.05 for 60 and $58.56 for 30 pills.

Side Effects

Conventionally, no drug should be taken with alcohol. Female Viagra is not exceptional. While there have not been reported major side effects, the drug might cause dizziness, light headaches and faintness to some women. Kindly do not overdose.

Verdict

If sex satisfaction is all that you are looking for, prepare your mind. Love who you want to share your body with, start early in order to reach your orgasm. In order to reach the latter, he needs to know which part of your body he should cuddle. You are the one to tell him in case he doesn't know this by himself.

Have a sexually fulfilling moment the next time you meet your mate in that dark room doing the thing.

Having Several “Bad” Sleeps Can Wreck Your Skin

It is advisable that all lights be put off when asleep. PHOTO by Google

It is now apparent that having just six hours of sleep for a couple of nights will cause wrinkles on your face. While critics argue that amount of hours one sleeps has been affected by the world’s economic situation, there is still need for one to have sufficient sleep. The study was conducted by supermodel Jodie Kidd. According to the study that involved 30 women from Europe who included Jodie herself, the results were amazing. They were all left to sleep for eight hours after which their skins were examined. “What we are looking for are the number of wrinkles, red areas in the skin, pores and brown spots,” says one of the officials who conducted the study. The 30 women were then allowed to sleep for six hours for another 5 nights after which they were again examined. The revelation was shocking. They all had double amounts of each sign that appeared in the previous examination and in some cases, new signs emerged on their skins especially the face. In fact, having several poor sleeps at night can make you look older than you actually are.

Dr Guy Meadows a leading sleep expert in the UK and the founder of The Sleep School says, “When an individual sleeps, they give their body time to heal, eliminate some toxins from their skins and renew their vigor. When you don’t get enough sleep, you weaken your body’s ability to perform these important functions. These results have been revealed after just five days of six hours sleep each day  while quite a number of people sleep for more less hours many days, weeks, months or even years. These will have profound and long-term negative effects on your skin.”

Some renowned sleep experts share the same sentiments as Dr Weadows. One such expert is Dr Lancer a dermatologist from LA who argues, “As one advances in age just an insufficient sleep for a night will be witnessed on their face. There will be dulls, bags and sags. Insomnia is likely to make an individual look ten years older than they actually are thus “beauty sleep” a term that is common with sleep is not a mere word of expression.” Dr Lancer continues to stress that everyone will look better after having a good and sufficient night’s sleep. “When your body does not get a good deep sleep, the skin’s repair process that is vital will be slowed thus ageing,” In order to avert the effects of wrinkles in your skin, Jodie Kidd advices that one should have at least eight hours of uninterrupted sleep daily.

How Is Facebook Going To Be Immortal After Your Demise

Will you ever imagine that is going to happen? If you think it is not, you are very far from being right. The world’s social media platform has made this revelation that will see the ongoing operations of facebook accounts of people who are dead. Initially, the account of anyone dead would be discontinued, locked, banned or just be memorized. But now, Thursday 26th February 2015, will mark the start of the immortality of any facebook account that will ever be in operation. What does this mean? Will you be talking to immortals? If not, how and who will you be talking to and you well know that the account’s owner died and perhaps you attended their burial? Good concerns herein.

It is not a mystery but legal issues that will see the owner of the account sign a document or even choose a person who will legally answer their chats, share photos and post on their timeline long after the death of the account owners.  How will that work? Here is a secret, log in to your account now and click at the top right corner on a place indicated as “settings”.  Starting with those living in USA, they will see an option in their tabs that will ask them to put security. This is where they will enter the name of the proposed account administrator. This is incredible! As said earlier, this people will be in charge of posting your stories and even updating not only your status but also your photos. Remember that you have an option of deleting completely. That means that it is not mandatory to choose the administrator to your account. After all you are alive.

This program is aimed at not only revamping this largest social media that now has  over 1.4 billion people but also merge with others. Google for example, has a feature called “inactive account manager” which allows you to access data and discard it completely after a given set of time namely three, six and one year which is equivalent of 12 months. The same feature in Google gives you the option to choose who will manage your data. This has happened for quite some time. There are also other services that Google has been treating customers to such as YouTube, Google Plus and Blogger.

What of other social sites such as Twitter? With this, it is exceptional. Tweeter simply deactivates your account upon realizing that you are no longer in existence. There is good reason why they do this: many people hardly use their real names on Twitter accounts.

Yes, now than ever before you can choose your own administrators after you are dead.