Six Reasonable Things That Keep Ladies Away From Men

Although we must agree that women are very sensitive to what they want from men, they are also a few men who have the same habit. If we are together to that point, relax as I take you, through reasons why many women decide to be single though attached to somebody. Women are and can be independent as men only if they choose to. Unfortunately, many choose not to be independent. To this, I mean they should at least have someone somewhere who takes care of “in-house chores.” Nonetheless, what are these things that keep women away from men?

 

Your Dress Code

The way you dress speaks a lot about you. It can tell a person of the way you behave, spend and organize yourself. Additionally, the way you groom can tell of your financial status. Though in the latter, there are those who disguise. Granted, they can be known from other ways of their true identity. Most ladies go for gentlemen who dress according to the era. You can easily tell what I imply here. Those that wear as if we are living in the Stone Age, reap the full benefits of being conservative wearers: they get no mate in this society. Your way of grooming should though match your age, profession and class. Don’t impress a lady when in real sense you don’t have a pillow to support your neck when you are asleep.

Financial Ability

Perhaps taken to be the most prevalent reason why ladies leave men. Nevertheless, even me, I can not associate with a [person who can not   buy a drink for themselves. It is wise if you walked with a person in the downtown with a few coins in the pocket to salvage an emergency. But ladies have endeavored to have guys with thick wallets bulging from their rear pockets. With this, they are comfortable when they receive candies as they talk in parks doing nothing that idling. Well, as a man, if the world’s joblessness predicament has befallen you, you are unfortunate to live in this generation. 

Chances of getting her are slim to none. A lady loves when she knows that her financial problems are settled by somebody else. This also applies to the working class. If your pocket is thorn, kindly mend it for you to win her. In fact my former college mate told me of her boyfriend, “I have always told him that without money, he can’t own me…. I can’t stay with a guy who doesn’t have good salary.”

Talk About Other Ladies

If you talk about how beautiful other ladies are, what do you expect? Seriously, how can you claim you love her yet your eyes are glued to that girl who passes by? You dare say you love her yet you like a figure she doesn’t poses? You like a lady with big boobs and she has the opposite. Is she your type? No! Fetch your caliber from the vast market in the outside world.

 These are just a few things that when she observes you do, she is left to ponder over them when you are snoring. If you want your lady to stick with you for eternity, praise her even if she has done nothing. After all, doesn’t she do so before her friends? To win her heart for eternity, chant praises to her at least when she is able to hear this by herself. 

Manning Your Lady

Whoever lied to you that you are able to tame your girlfriend, is the biggest joker on the planet. Women can never be tamed. Adam was unable to take judge of his beautiful wife when she was seduced by the Devil. Who are you? Unlike children who are just under your guidance as a man, women deserve freedom. I dint say some freedom. This freedom allows them to decide whether to be willingly in subjection to you or not. 

After all, aren’t we speaking of girlfriends here? They have their liberty to the fullest. Let them use them as they wish. When you try to put measures on your girl, she rebels in an instant by asking herself,” Is this the kind of life I am going to enjoy during marriage?” Don’t scare your lady by your dictatorship.

You Don’t Involve Her

When she first came to your house you had one couch. You had no floor carpet. She is used to this lifestyle for the past six months that you have known each other. Whenever you want to watch a movie together, the only comfort you draw is by sitting tightly close to each other. Now, considering that it is your house, you woke up one morning and decided to add a modern couch and the latest fashion of carpet. 

When she comes in the next time, she exclaims,” Oops! Why this color darling? Who is going to sit on this?” Do you get the sense dude? At least, the six months are worthy her involvement in color planning, purchasing and transporting. After all, what don’t you share by now? Be honest.

You Are A True Casanova

You are likely to agree with me that if she can’t get her fundamental right, she will quit. Yes she will! This is what keeps a lady close and tight to her man. No matter the looks, if the man is a great performer and achiever in bed, believe you me, she won’t move a centimeter away. This is the most crucial thing that keeps ladies away from well-dressed good-for-nothing men who think that their money can buy satisfaction. I may not be their advocate, or activist for their rights, but honestly, can a lady stick to a man who will never satisfy her imperative desires? Never! 

As long as you are maligned with the aforementioned attributes and perhaps inabilities, they will keep turning their backs against you.