Whether you
are in marriage, in engagement, or in an open relationship with a lady, at one
point, when a disagreement arises and you are not able to solve it between
yourselves, you are likely to face threats from your lady. These are not mere
threats as such for they are bound to break your relationship maybe terminate
your love if not taken seriously. It is good to learn in advance, the likely
threats that you might encounter swoon when an argument between you and her
escalates. As you do this though, beware that you can cub this by the way you
treat your mate. Virtually, it depends on you as a head how you handle your
private matters. To that end, these are some of the things your lady is likely
to throw to you in a bid to scare you completely:
Not take care
of your laundry
Part of the
work of a lady is to make sure that their men are neat and smart. This is
especially important to those in a marriage union. The Bible rightly put it
that Jehovah made Eve to be Adam’s helper-Genesis
2:18. Whether it was to help in other matters or not, the Holy book does
not specify thus does not rule out laundry care. Many married men go out for
work and leave the rest of house chores to be attended to by their spouses.
This has led to many not knowing even how to take care of even the simplest of
the house chores. Therefore, if there is a disagreement that does not seem to
end soon, she will threaten you of not washing your clothes.
Pay dowry or
I quit
Among the
most used threats to scare men from most traditions who embrace the payment of
dowry as a sign of formalizing marriages. Believe you me it shakes most men to
the chore. Payment of dowry before you take up a woman for marriage is
paramount among most cultures in Asia, Africa and Latin America. Though the
trend is changing fast because of civilization and the world becoming a global
village, those who cling to culture; which to me is a fair deal, face this
threat more than others. It is even becoming rampant since many people are now
than ever cohabiting before they legally marry each other.
My parents
must know
In some
incidents where the man’s pedigree is known to be of low income than that of
the lady, chances of receiving this type of a threat are inevitable. Women tend
to believe that when things have gone sour, pouring down information about
their endless marital conflicts to her family is enough to silence her husband.
As a lady, you are lying to yourself in this regard. You married your man not
withstanding his background. Surprisingly, there are those it perfectly works
for. Let not your in-laws intrude your marriage as a man.
No present,
no sex
Defined as
an action more than a mere threat, some men are suffering in the hands of their
mates for not meeting some of the “greedy” demands of their spouses. Since it
is difficult for most men to speak out their problems to their friends however
much they trust them, it turns to be the “unspoken homicide”, killing our men
softly. Some ladies put high measures to their spouses others as far as asking
for an imported Rolls Royce in
exchange of the rightly deserved conjugal rights.
You are not
the father
Known to be
the worst mental threat there has been in marriage, this enters the born
marrows of a man crushing his soul forever. It is said that this is aimed at
balancing the love the man gives his children. Granted, there is a child who
you dearly love simply because they resemble you in every aspect and there are
those you are slightly not fond of. Whatever the case, the lady can decide to
inform you in the eye that the child you love most is actually not your
progeny. How will that make you feel? Well, these can be just well thought schemes
to silence you and put you under the control of your woman.
