5 Undisputed Signs That Your Marriage Is Falling Apart

It is sad that some things get worse every day and unless drastic measures are taken to contain the situation, our generation is bound to be extinct. I would not like it to reach this far with your mate now that you have raised such a beautiful family. It is my sincere prayer that before it gets worse anyway, you look up to this site for incisive articles that will help you make wise decisions in future as regards your marriage life especially when things seem to be getting out of hand. I must commend you though that you have tried several means to see it work out better for both of you. However, you need to admit that you have not exhausted all possible avenues at least this one.

Many people me inclusive; enter into the marriage with the aim of getting peace. If that is what you have in mind, you are very right. The fact is good marriage can be a haven where joy and peace prevail. On the other hand, if marriage is marred with conflicts that end up in the hands of neighbors even local leaders that marriage will hardly give any a sense of identity. We would like to associate ourselves with peaceable couples. Marriage mates should be watchful of the following signs for they not only show that something is wrong in your marriage, but also indicate a serious danger of a falling marriage.

1. Endless conflicts

If you practically argue with your mate on everything, I am scared that your marriage is in trouble. Researchers and marriage experts believe that a couple will never meet on everything possible in their marriage but at least they will agree on most things since they have much time to consult. Unfortunately, some marriage mates must argue out their point bitterly for them to feel that they are heard.

2. Fits of anger

It is not bad to be angry at times since we err many times and the possibility of getting offended by our mates cannot be underestimated. The challenge that faces couples everyday is on how to control themselves after feeling that their spouses have wronged them in one way or another. Since anger is inevitable, you do good to avoid fits-the recurring bit of anger and the feeling that you need to vent it onto somebody for you to be okay.

3. Long silence

It is never wrong to seek time to be alone for sometime during the day. In fact, such solitary time allows you to refocus, reexamine and evaluate yourself on necessary things you need to adjust. Long time spent on solitude is inexcusable though. Your mate needs your company for it is fundamental for the couple to warmly appreciate one another especially at night a time to talk about the goings of each other's day.

4. Avoiding meals

If your partner does not enjoy meals with you of late, this is a serious sign that something is wrong with either your cooking or your intention of bringing the food home. When a couple sit for at least a meal a day, it gives them a chance to express themselves better over the meal. One may ask, where does your mate eat from nowadays? Well, you should be concerned on the feelings of your mate when you don’t take meals from the house.

5. Complaints


It is not bad to inquire why something was done differently from the expected especially when something concerns you. It sounds awkward though, if your spouse complains on virtually everything. You had better looked for other possible channels of solving problems amicably rather than raising complaints now and again. If complaints escalate they will lead to either party throwing tantrums which is also a sign that your marriage in thriving on a slippery ground.