Attention Seekers on a Wrong Platform

This perfectly describes our ladies in colleges. From hairstyles, fancy attires to loose bras these are what there lecturers face each day when they are before them. I am not saying that this is what all the girls in campus do or wear, but at least you can agree with me that most of them aim at something deep down their hearts and mind. Let us try to figure out what exactly they are after then we will advice our male lecturers.
  
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A decently dressed college girl in Montreal CA

Most of these ladies are aged between 18 and 24. At this age, they are trying to get out of their comfort zones in order to explore what you did not do when you were at that age. Granted, we live in a digital era where everything seems to be trending in your own way. Basically, everyone wants to be known in her own way. After all, who doesn’t want to be recognized as a celeb? Most of these ladies if not all, have directly out of high school uniform and want to taste the sweetness of college’s free style cladding. I am also one of those who hated to be confined in one color of dress Monday through Friday with an exception of only Sunday.

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Now that they are in campus, they do as they want-wear, walk, talk, eat name them I warmly welcome you to this liberated lifestyle that has a limit though. Look at this; the men you almost go nude for are either your next door neighbors in the village where you put up, siblings or your friend’s siblings; relatives and to crown it all, most are married and probably with children of your age. Is there point then for you to walk half nude before these?

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If you happen to be in such a scenario, kindly pause and ask yourself if this is a worthy course. In essence, what did you come to search for in college? I doubt if it is to be known but to gain skills for your future. My sister, don’t lose the track for many have walked down that slippery ground and have fallen with no one to raise them up. Remember this too. Your male teachers have been here for many years others since the school started offering this education and so, many have passed through their able hands. So how many “super ladies” have they seen? Who are you to change what? What do you have that others did not posses? You have the answers. 

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Some attention seekers distract male lecturers with their loose
tops like this above, making it ideally difficult for the teachers
 to concentrate.

My fellow lecturers, you are not innocent either. You are also catalysts to this phenomenon. I don’t mean all of you. In fact I know of a few that are super gentle, responsible family heads, fathers and guardians. You have my innermost commendations. At least I associate with you. Those that are the likes of these girls on the other hand, receive my rebuke. You have come to nurture our ones to the next level. Your level of education dictates that you should be a “smart” person. Live to that. Remember that there are quite a number of literates that yearn to have a chance to inculcate certain values to these girls but have not been fortunate enough to get it but you did. Help them gain the skills thematically. 

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Meanwhile, I suggest that you focus on your delivery not on their dress code. Stand behind the lecture hall as you preside over the lesson. This way, it may help calm your stimulation.

Guillotine A Friend or a Foe?

Taking someone’s life is a serious criminal offense in every community all over the world. Whether marginalized or not, human life has been regarded sacred in whatever region in the world. Since time memorial, sacred and religious books have considered that subject turbulent. 

In ancient Israel for example, it was very wrong to take someone’s life whether deliberate or by accident. Granted, if you did so for the latter reason, the high priest would ensure that you have the Godly amnesty that existed back then. The amnesty comprised cities of refuge that became homes to those that killed without intention until the high priest of the time of their going to these cities of refuge died. 

Those that deliberately killed their fellowmen were subjected to the same destiny-death. Stones were pelt onto them on a broad day light by fellow countrymen. Do you then think that God justified killing? On the contrary. He is the founder of life and He has every reason to determine who enjoys what He lovingly provides to His subjects. Since man was entrusted with conscience-in born ability of making judgment of right and wrong, one has to utilize that ability by making wise decisions. 

That law came to a sweet end in the 1^st century with the introduction of a new law that replaced many. The law was introduced by none other than Jesus Christ when he said that Love your God and your neighbor. That law has continued to govern the minds of many who believe in creation. Killing is murder and murder is criminal that is punishable by law in every land in the world. To that end, most countries that respect the rule of law and adhere to the revised version of the International Human Rights Act, would agree that guillotine is evil, inhuman, awkward; barbaric and backward.

Let us love one another in as much as we may differ. After all, what is wrong when people differ on principle? Even if not on that reason, at least you are at liberty to say, act whenever you want and wherever you are as long as you do not infringe other people’s rights. If you intrude, there are jails with massive walls and conditions that will guarantee you life but deter you for causing harm to your fellow humans.

Let us shun the merciless killing of our fellow human beings. Let us join hands and stop guillotine.

Five Biggest Mistakes Ladies Make On Dates

EVERYTHING is ready and well planned. The romantic evening candle light, soothing music, a perfect rendezvous and dinner has been set. You choose your perfect red dress to match with your sexy red spotted heels and the most enticing fragrance to delight your “suitor”. You want his attention, capture his interest and show Mr. “prince charming” just how perfect a woman you are. But the question is how you do it? Relationship experts lament that, it is not only what you do that day, but also what you do not that makes the difference between getting a phone call the next day and never hearing from the man again. On your next date avoid these five mistakes that will ruin your chance for romance.

 1. Baggage from past relationship

 In her book, You Deserve Healthy Love Sister, Dr. Grace Cornish says, “A lot of ladies bring baggage from old relationships into a new union expecting the same actions from the new guy. She will watch his every move, waiting for something to go wrong that will drive.” Simply put, the fastest way to make your guy run away from you is to constantly bring up difficulties in your life caused by others. No man wants to hear a woman complain about what a dog the other guy was. Think of this as a man; during a date a woman told you that you reminded her of a handsome boyfriend. Suddenly, she remembered all the heartache he caused her and the evening’s mood changed for the worse. Chances are, if a lady has a lot of drama in her life she will bring it into yours.

 2. Premature expectations

 After a few romantic dates, some ladies may start to be serious. Forcing a relationship that hasn’t developed, may prove detrimental. Give your man time to catch up with you emotionally and be aware that he may not feel exactly the way you feel. As a lady, remember chances are, if your current guy was dating before he met you, he probably didn’t stop because of you no matter how much you would like to think so. Women think that because they have fallen for you, that you feel the same way. They fail to realize that at least someone generally has to fall first. 

As a lady, you need to leave your guy reach to that point by his own, without being forced to make a decision prematurely. Most men prefer a drama-free life style. Ladies ought not to make a mistake of attempting to lay down the law too soon. Don’t be in a hurry to bring up what he will and won’t stand for when dating a man. Since it is too early lighten up my sister.

 3. Sex too soon 

Introducing intimacy into a relationship too quickly may be the quickest route to the demise of healthy long term relationship. It may be cliche but if a lady sleeps with a man too quickly, he won’t respect her. That is directly from many I have talked to and researched on. So, if the guy is worth it, let him wait. When sex is introduced in a relationship, it blows the dynamics off the weighing scale. Sex is too powerful in that it clouds all issues. In those early times, sex becomes the focus. After all, what do you share? It is a necessary ingredient and easily overshadows the process of getting to know each other. If you give in to sex too soon, you are likely not to know your guy better and vice versa. You will continue doing mistakes if you allow a great date or a series of dates to make your starry-eyed and swoon to the point that you go to bed with the guy too early.

 4. Focusing on his money 

The Hidden Lover, a book authored by William July II says, “The biggest issue guys have is being used or sneezed referring who accept dates simply to go out for a cup of coffee or dinner without paying.” These can be expensive proposition financially and emotionally. Today’s dating scene requires equality on both sides of the table. When a bill comes, both hands should be reaching, out for it. So he recommend: Go lunch, share the cheque. That way, the lady doesn’t feel that the guy is trying to owe him and the guy doesn’t feel that she is using him either. Nobody would want to show up in the first date on what he or she has, check stubs, bank statements and debit cards in hand.

 5. Pretending to be someone you are not 

No matter who you are trying to be, guys believe that the real you, is bound to come out. If you haste cooking don’t make a gourmet meal for date two, three or four. If you hate sports, don’t pretend you do by cuddling under my arm every evening during my favorite EPL match. You can only play superwoman for so long. When you have the inability to express your true identity, you lose your perceptive on who you are and how to act on your relationship. 

If you don’t know your own goals, you can’t effectively match yourself with a mate. Whatever you do, what is important for the success of a relationship to be is a mutual desire on the part of each person to have a true relationship. Both people should be committed. Both must share the same value, structure and goals in a relationship. By avoiding these mistakes and being honest with yourself and to your guy, happiness is likely to be just a date.

GOOD LUCK SISTER.

 Quick Easy Tips

 Do not display an attitude.

 Do not talk about your ex boyfriend.

 Do not ask for money.

 Do not wear your heart on your sleeve.

 Do not be overly interested on what he owns.

How Guardians Have Turned Against Their Own

What really has gone wrong where? There are people that have been entrusted with the responsibility of helping our young ones and offering them the best help, care and the motivation that they rightly deserve. Usually, this is a lofty responsibility that many yearn for without let up. Unfortunately, a number that we are about to witness, have fallen way too short of this dignified responsibility and turned predators of their own blood. What am I talking about?

 

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A 64 year old man, sleeping with her bed ridden 14 year old daughter and if you think that is enough for the lady, she gets pregnancy from her own father. Another man slept repeatedly with his wife and daughter in different times of the day and night, but at the end of it all, impregnates both of them and it turns a shock to many, when both deliver at the same time.

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Elsewhere, a man who should be a care-giver to his children, rapes his 6 and 9 year old daughters and infects them with AIDS. You may ask where their mother was. The man’s wife died of HIV.

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These are common people in the society you may say. Others that are expected to behave indifferently have also shocked a multitude. For example, a police officer enticed  2 and 5 year old girls with biscuits and raped them. The same officer does not stop there but goes ahead and molests a 7 year old boy. Honestly, on whose bosom will our young ones rest?

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The clergy are not left out of this either. A pastor repeatedly rapes his 12 and 15 year old daughters in a rather weird experience. Upon realizing that the older girl is carrying her husband’s pregnancy, her mother terminates the pregnancy without the daughter’s approval.

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When will this pay day be? If this people failed to gather but rather scatter their sons and daughters, who will? You have the answer.