Why People Engage in Extramarital Relationship

Love started when they both stormed into each other’s face in this shopping mall down in the coast. That time, the guy was doing his diploma studies in IT at a local polytechnic in the area, and the lady had just come from the city to visit her aunt who by then was working with the fisheries department. Hardly did they know that for subsequent years, they will exchange numbers and chat the whole night on social media as long as they would be able to keep the conversation alive and at the end, get in a serious relationship.

For many, this is not a story that belongs to someone else but a real thing that happen to them every other day. Whichever the situation, this is what happened to this couple whose love live started like a little fire that later engulfed the entire field stretching to the neighbour’s thus their relationship has gone sour after wadding in the love mainstream for a couple of years.

You may be surprised to realize that such scenarios happen in our neighbourhood’s day in day out. Hardly do people take emphasis about this until it involves you and loved one. So it touches you and me. Whatever happens, you are not justified to go for a second affair lest you are likely to lose even what you have. It would be wise to focus on how to mend such loop holes that are about to get you out of the love of your heart. After all, nobody will ever like to lose what they have worked for a long time. If such things happen to you, take time to meditate and see whether indeed there is a need to forge another love. It would be ideal then that we reexamine ourselves again.

Every cloud has a silver lining says an old adage. Your home and family should be a shaven where you find leisure and pleasure whenever you want it. This will happen to you no matter what has happened so far. Therefore, it all depends on how much you can do in as much as things seem to have gone astray. When you first saw each other, you went ahead and promised to love one other and the more you spent time in travelling to your best destinations in the world if you ever did, bought presents to your mate; learnt to do some things together, some of which you did not even know, meant that you have created time for the only one you loved. What has made the changes that you no longer want to see the one you once held to your bosom should not escalate beyond here. In just a day you became a gourmet because you thought this could impress your mate. All this was in a bid to enhance your love for your new catch. Whatever happened can be mended to suit both of you. It is not too late to seek to redress and repair your in house granted you do not employ mundane excuses.

You can always find a way out of that difficult situation in your life. Talking to a counselor is the best way to start. But even before you do that, you might be forced to give it another approach of perusing different pages that are believed to have relevant information. Another way that will definitely be of help to you is to create time for your mate. This time should be dedicated top listening to your mate as they tell their take on the topic at hand; as you intently follow what they have to say that is rendering your love unbearable for both of you. During this important time in your live when trying to revamp your love, the value should be given to knowing what hurts your mate and not who has done what. The blame game does not help any of you in this stage.

It is of good help if you still see your mate as the only one that has ever existed. This type of thinking will help you have an attitude of loving them forever since there is no one to replace them no matter what happened. I am not endorsing any sense of brutality in my sentiments but you may likely see some sense in all that you will do regarding your mate. You will do yourself a favour if only you realize that since you met your current mate many years ago, time has run so fast. In fact you are getting older everyday never to go back to where you met those heydays. Do all you can to love and maintain your mate for they are all the same. No one is an angel but you can have yours today.

What Men Should Beware About Ladies

Our sisters are awesome. Without them the world would be formless. A woman is the epitome of beauty in the society she hails from. With their help, a man is able to stand before colleagues thanks to a lot of efforts employed by the lady behind him in the backyard. If you are not aligning yourself with my word, stay there a little bit longer for justification. 

                                                            "Were it not for her, 
                                                           alien objects would be
                                                   intruding your car every evening."

 

First, let me start with your mother. She carried you for nine months in her womb and you comfortably played in her belly as it lost shape as it dawned till you saw the light of the day. Even if I stop there, isn't it justifiable? You can’t deny this fact that gets all mankind. She was uncomfortable for a couple of more days even weeks of nursing the wounds especially for those who went through caesarian section or episiotomy for our young sisters.

Even after the nursing of wounds, there came the daunting bit-weaning you as you learn the new “tricks” of becoming a young lad for lack of a better word. This is the time in life that you should always remember that your mom indeed did a lot to see you grow a young and vibrant man who you are or once were.

Now that you are past her bosom and that you have had your own life and possibly a family, look back on her with appreciation and commendation rather than condemnation. She is a real and true woman. She deserves your love. Yes I mean even the lady beside you in your life however young she may be.

On the other hand, there are those who do not deserve to be given any title since they have done nothing to deserve it whatsoever. Those who fall in this category are those who under unclear circumstances terminated their pregnancies. This is illegal. Others tried to burn their female colleagues because rumour had it that her man was cheating on her and the culprit is at hand. 

 

Intruders like these would be invading every evening.

Away from problems, never underestimate the strength of that lady in your life. They ensure that your clothes are ironed and stored properly, your food is ready in time; you remember your loved ones, something you might easily forget if she is not around. Our ladies make sure that we look good before other’s in as much as this is selfish... chances are you would suffer malnutrition were it not for her constant craving of different spices and foreign cuisines. 

 

There are imminent reasons to believe that; were it not for her, “alien objects” would be intruding your car every evening from work. To crown the goodness of your princess, think of this: could you really put up that little place you call your home? I doubt. 

Many dudes, me inclusive, having looked around and the atmosphere suggests that you are “free” without responsibilities, you end up saying that it is needless to have a place to call your own. After all, what is the need for one when you have a place you put your head? Therefore, behind every successful man, there is a prudent woman and vice versa.

Multiple Streams of Income When Engaging In Online Business

This is one area that has been perceived by many as the business of the elite. However, given a critical look, there are many multiple streams of income when one does business with the help of a computer. Especially in the current digital era, one should not be speaking of nothing but specific means of making an income by the use of the vast information found in the internet. Now, many people can access a computer than it used to be in the late 1980s and early 90s.  Almost every homestead has a computer or a means to get one.

 

What does that mean? With that vast information available in the website, we are able to get these multiple streams of income. These, coupled with little skills on how to operate a computer, can be a good source of income. Online content writing for example, is an ingenious means of getting an income. What one needs to understand in the case of online content writing is what is involved in online article writing. After knowing how to search and navigate through the search engine, you are good to go as an online writer. You do not need to have a Degree or a Diploma in journalism and related studies for you to be a writer! As long as you understand the rules of the game, you can earn a legitimate living.

Another way that you can create an income for yourself is engaging in blogging. A blogger can be a trained person or not. Interestingly, you only need to have traffic in your blog. Among the multiple streams of income, this is the easiest. Why do I say so? In your personal blog, you decide to write on a subject you are passionate about. Within your blog, you can share your photos, you are able to interact with your readers and earn in the long run. Earning is brought about by the number of people who visit your blog. Every other time they source information from your blog, the number of viewers increase, and advertisers will then post their advertisements in your blog. This is money.

Those gifted with art and can be able to take good videos can also benefit greatly from these online platforms. By placing their artistic work and videos online, they will reap from their sweat. Nonetheless, these multiple streams of income do not come to the lazy. How many people have able gadgets but only use them to play games? While the number may vary from one region to another, and may depend on the age bracket, there are those who just sit in front of the computer to have fun instead of earning a living from it.

Be it as it may, for one to survive in these hard economic times, you have to be innovative in whatever thing you may be doing. While different governments are trying so hard to empower the young and old alike, may you then seize the opportunity and fully benefit from these available avenues of making money. Yes, you can choose a way of earning a living that best suits you from the multiple streams of income available.

How to Solve Marital Conflicts

Arguments are inevitable in every union under the sun. The only difference that exists between your relationship and mine is the degree at which my spouse and I argue. We may be very vocal on a daily basis, whereas you argue periodically thus the difference. It does not mean that our marriages are bound to fail, but this is a sign that things are either good or are going sour. It should be understood though that, as mentioned in the outset, in every relationship, there should be a difference in opinion between marriage partners, and this may lead to troublesome quarrels, heated arguments and at times this will result to either or both harboring resentment.

                                                                                                 “If you don’t,

                                                                        who then are you

                                                                reserving that precious time for?”

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Conflicts are not justifiable in any given set up. We may have differences in opinion that is based on facts and principles and this is guaranteed. However, it is not a leeway to having confrontations with our loved ones. After all, does it sound nice when your neighbors sleep and wake up every day with your arguments on petty issues? It doesn’t. Your neighbors deserve a little courtesy. To solve your marital arguments however, there are practical steps that you will definitely need to apply lest your marriage is doomed to collapse.

Communicate well with your mate

Communication is vital in every relationship. There is however a big difference between the normal chat that exist among peers, colleagues at work, acquaintances and your partner. Your spouse deserves quality, healthy intimate discussion at time from perfectly chosen rendezvous. Create time to talk to your spouse about anything especially what might be stressing. It is agreeable that the social dynamism that we are experiencing in the world may not give you time to speak to your spouse as it allowed you a couple of years ago, but you have to create that time for your partner. If you don’t, who then are you reserving that precious time for?

Have time for your mate

Visit a serene place like this  and have fun with your spouse.
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More than anybody else including your boss, exclusive of your children if there, your mate requires your time. This time is different from what we have been speaking in the preceding paragraph. This is meant to nurture the love you have had, reflect on any shortcomings and challenges that you have had overtime, and deliberate on ways to combat similar challenges in future. Many a times, you may find it wise to settle on a vacation in the Kenyan coastal town of Malindi. I am specific because of reasons that I will mention here in forthcoming articles. You can swim together, wad in the shallow waters with your hand gentle holding your spouse, and by doing these you are confirming and affirming your love.

Forgive your mate

Arguments emanate from misunderstandings that come as a result of one mate not meeting particular standards set by the other. Be it as it may, the set standards are not holy, lofty and are prone to selfish dispositions. If your partner therefore fails to meet given standards that you strongly feel that they shouldn’t have, prudence calls for asking why things were done otherwise. Having satisfactorily looked at your mate’s reason of resorting into doing so, you may then decide to forgive knowing that nobody yes no man is perfect for all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God thus susceptible to error. Forgive you mate and move on. Tomorrow it might be you failing to meet the standards laid and agreed by both of you sometimes on paper.

Why Rich People Don't Find Love

"The rich also cry". Many people are familiar with that simple quote that has much in it. Whether it relates with the theme or not, the rich cry and indeed mourn for love. They will never enjoy what you and I have in surplus. If you belong to the group that I am addressing today, don’t panic for your pay day is around the corner. You however need to do something. You will need to get yourself out of that cocoon. You aren't too big to be admonished, learn and earn that love.

 

You may own an expensive brand of car like the one
above, but without a lovely partner, no enjoyment.

Love is inevitable. After all, no man is an island. We were created in a manner that we need to be loved, cared for and at least however poor we may be at heart, we give thus enjoying the benefits of a real cheerful giver. You may not be having those good looks, catchy figure worthy romance or even the language to seduce, but you may be the right source of joy to the other party.

Why though is it difficult for those with money yes money not to access what you and I have in plenty? To answer that question, I humbly invite you to walk with me for a few steps backward. This way, we may be able to advice and probably help our siblings get what they have missed for such a long time.

 

The rich think that since they dominate the largest surface area-have their names in virtually every book, stock market and the like, lack nothing. So, they claim as did one rich man in the Bible in Jesus’ parable. “Now that I 

A couple enjoying themselves. Behind every successful man,
there is a woman and vice versa. 

have gathered all these food in the stores, let me sit back and enjoy...” The man in that example did not live to enjoy since he lacked one vital thing-love for Jehovah. You too need be loved for you to be complete. 

 

In fact, for you to get what your colleagues are wadding in, there are a few quick tips:

 

1. Accept that you are a human being.

2. You too need company from a partner.

3. Giving is more rewarding than receiving.

4. Monies have drastic definite end but love doesn't.

5. It shows how inhuman and selfish you are-this is bad for your colleagues who know how much you posses.

6. By having the love of your heart, you won’t lose even a penny.

I have your best interests at heart. Never have I ever thought that celibacy that is brought about by money can be legitimized in any condition. Adjust your goals and expectations and who knows, you will be my reader’s adviser the next time I visit this page.

How Superstition Is Connected With Prostitution

Over time, man and woman have always wanted the most of what they have spent on either party for a good reason. Whichever degree of what you are looking for anyway; there must also be a limit however you may want to legitimize your obscene acts. It has emerged that prostitution has gone digital. I have been told by my colleagues that they have better name-commercial sex workers. Well, wherever suits them better is what we will use. After all, the business has been commercialized in many backstreets of most major cities around the world be it be NY, Rio, Manchester, Mumbai; Jo'burg or Nairobi.

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Ready hot chicks on hot spots in the city near you.

Granted, it is a willing giver a willing taker. That literally means that there exists mutual concept between the two parties. The whole fiasco starts with a man giving a call to the house informing the wife of a late business deal even emergency that has to be addressed lest the company’s reputation will be trounced. I love these “business” ideas. How I wish they were harnessed for the better of the corporate world. Our nations would be moving at a bomber’s speed to hit its target.

                         “As busy as you are, she

                         agrees that you leave to catch

                   up with your family before it's midnight.”

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Thankfully, this new deal will see both parties afford a big smile on their face.  For one, it will be elusive but for the other, permanent. Good things come out of toil. Isn’t it? After that call to the house, the man gets the go ahead to seal the deal that has emerged. Yes, he has the full support of family members who are waiting for him in the house later that evening once the deal is over. After all, home is a couple of minutes drive from the office during the off-peak hours. 

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Upon arrival at a usual den in the backstreet where there is an ample parking, the man’s chores are in a KISS slogan-keep it simple and short. This way, it is manageable. He just lowers his window to see who catches the eye and before long, they flock at the side like a swarm of bees looking for some nectar. Indeed they have it. Using some of the literal muscle, one outwits others to open the door that was at ajar, pops in and there you go with your newest catch.

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Unfortunately, there is a new strategy employed by the ladies that keeps you going back. And before I tell it to you, promise me that you are not going to let them know. But whatever you are planning to do, I decide to share with you what has been discovered since I am a brother’s keeper. The truth is, whether you like it or not, you are going back after you first stepped on that street. But there is a way out. You, however, need to apologize to your first lady. She will forgive you if you are remorseful.

There is ample parking for you Range Rover Sport.

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Commercial sex workers have found a new way to make sure that once you have set your eyes on their thighs, you will keep going back for more as long as they are available. They do this when you are totally careful so as not to infect your family which they strongly back with hidden agendas aimed at benefiting them. They insist that you use protective measures during the act probably a good quality female and male condom. Isn’t it a noble idea? 

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All these are aimed at reaching your semen after you are done with her. As busy as you are, she agrees that you leave to catch up with your family before it's midnight. She argues; let me throw this dirt away. Granted, there is a dustbin behind you where she turns and dumps them before your eyes. Hardly do you know that after you exit, she will come back to your “forgotten” sperm, for a special ritual that will keep you coming back as long as you are energetic. This is where prostitution meets superstition. Without your knowledge, your semen lands in the able hands of a witch doctor who performs the chemistry that you once learnt in high school when a young boy that you have forgotten. By doing this, she would have had potential clients in her business.